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I think your mom just wants you to get some work experience for the future. Which is a good thing!
If you don’t like the business of serving, talk to your mom about it.
Tell her you do not like serving and you’d rather do something else. Something that you like.
It’s important for you to give them a call yourself. Your mom is not going to do your deeds forever. It’s part of growing up. You need to pick up that phone, give them a call and say you want to quit.
If you can’t do it now, how are you going to do it in the future?
You’re not going to “dissapoint” the manager. They deal with these kind of issues everyday!
They might ask you a few questions about why you want to leave and what not. But simply tell him you don’t feel right.
I know it’s nerve wrecking and you might not want to answer the questions, but you have to.
You can ask your mom for suggestions on what to say and how to start, but don’t let her do it for you. Do it yourself.
I’m in college for business and trust me, it’s best if you do it yourself. It’s a reputation you will forever have when you want to work in the future.
I wish you best of luck!
I’m going to be super blunt about this because I was in a similar situation back in highschool and it ruined a friendship I had. I don’t want you going trough the same. x
First, you won’t be “stealing” him from her because it’s just a crush. He doesn’t belong to anyone. You want to try and date him? Go ahead.
If your friend gets mad then she obviously cares more about the guy than your friendship!
I know it sounds really shady to date a guy your friend likes. But it’s not your fault that she likes him too. Do you want to be with him? If so, give it your best! After all the choice will be up to the guy.
You need to focus on yourself. You don’t live to please others :)
Again, I say give it a shot. If she gets mad? she wasen’t a true friend and cares more about the guy than you. Go out there and get him, love!
Follow you heart and don’t hold back for anyone :)
I have a lot of school experiences due to how rushed the school is here.
First, you’re not going to school to worry about who hates you, who’s going to bully you next, who likes who or for friends. You are going to school to get an education to get a job in the future.
You need to stop worrying about things that don’t really matter, you’ll notice that when you leave highschool.
That girl that wants to “ruin your life”? Impossible. One jealous person only ruins your life if you let them. Just ignore her, you tried to make peace but she obviously doesn’t care. Tell an authority. If she falls in the same classes as you, sit far away to avoid distraction.
Don’t let people get to you because in the end it wont matter who was popular and who wasen’t. We’ll all end up growing up and getting over that phase.
You don’t need to have friends during school. But if you really want some, just start talking to people. Sitting next to someone new in class? Say hi. Help people in class if they have a question. See someone sitting alone during lunch? Go sit down with them. See someone alone at their locker? Go say hello. It might be awkward at first, but the more you do this, the easier it gets.
And please, always make sure you’re friends with the right people. Don’t be-friend someone because of how popular they are. Make friends that make you feel safe and comfortable. You wont regret it.
As for the boy you like, you can try talking to him. There are 2 options; Letting the crush go or just befriend him. When you see him, just a simple hello will do!
Remember, school is for learning. You need to focus on you and only you. I know it sounds silly, but I’ve experienced highschool. Turst me, when you get to college and higher you will look back on the old days and think “Why did all that matter?”
Always be positive and be yourself! I wish you the best of luck :)
hello again! yay! i’m so happy for you anon. thank you for taking time to reply back to us <3
Urgent/time sensitive. I had an allergic reaction to something at work and now have hives on my forearms and on my face. I’ve tried an oatmeal bath, baking soda paste, witch hazel, aloe Vera and vitamin e oil, and benedryl. I have prednyzone (or however it’s spelled) but it has some bad side effects on me. I look gross and scary, and I work in a nursing home serving food. Many people won’t understand that what I have isn’t contagious or dangerous, so I can’t really do my job. I can’t keep calling in sick but I’ve been told to avoid the causes of my reaction but I don’t know what quite caused it at work, it might’ve been bleach or too much heat. But I itch so badly, do you have any suggestions or own personal remedies that help/work? Anyone with ideas that sees this post is welcome to tell me, as well. Also, are there any blogs or websites that could help? I’m so desperate. Please please help.
hello! i’ve had terrible allergic reactions with hives, i feel your pain. you did everything you were supposed to do, but i think you need to make a doctor’s appointment ASAP! it may have been a delayed reaction (it took hours between coming in contact with the allergen and the reaction) and i really advise you to go to the hospital if you have trouble breathing, puffy face, lips, or throat.
have you come in contact with any known allergies you have? any new medications? even medications that you’ve taken for years can cause an allergic reaction, those have been all of my reactions. try to eliminate and isolate the cause if you can. take the prednisone 1 day and then go a day without it and see what happens.
again, i’m not a medical professional, but i believe you can trust your own judgement!
are you able to be a lil more specific - your age (or his age), when did you send your message? I don’t think I can find anything like this in the inbox, if you can’t see it on the blog then try resending it <3
haha ok, well I mean it depends on who you like more? who makes you happy, who respects you, who you’re attracted to more? think about what you’re with ‘pacey’, what do you like about him? do you really like “dawson” or do you think it these feelings may have only been sparked since he confessed that he liked you? sometimes writing up a pro/con list of why you like each guy helps to clarify your thoughts (:
at the end of the day though it’s a decision that only you can make, remember that. listen to your heart and your gut feeling, think about what you want in a relationship and what’s going to make you happy. much love <3
HI there sweetie! I can understand and sympathize with where you are coming from. I used to work part time at a restaurant for the morning and it got stressful because there was a lot to do, just like you described. One thing I would suggest, even though it may be a little intimidating, is talking to your boss. If they genuinely care about their employees, they can make sure you have someone working with you to help you out. If for some reason that can’t happen, or it makes you even more nervous, we can do something else. I know that sometimes, with me, when things get nerve-wracking I know that I over think them. What I mean is that I make things in my head seem way worse than they are. So ask to take a step outside for a second if you can, or go to the bathroom. Get a simple mantra like…it’s busy, but that’s okay. I can handle it. Something simple and breathing in and out.
I hope these tips can help you with your job!
Hey there hun! It sounds like this guy doesn’t know what he wants. He seems like he likes you some times, and then other times he doesn’t. Someone who wants to genuinely be with you will make the effort to be with you..no questions asked. I know it may be hard for someone who might not know what he wants, but you need to realize that you shouldn’t have to deal with his on again off again. Confront him is the wrong word, but talk to him seriously. Ask him what he wants, and if he wants you tell him to show it..and not be so wishy washy.
Hope that can help you!
Luv, Gaylemarie ;p
I LOVE YOU TOO, ANON. <3 -Aby
Hi there! That’s a bit of a sticky situation. I know this is hard to hear, but if someone is lying to be with you, that means they don’t care enough to make you the number one. It’s nice to feel wanted, and I get that…promise. But you deserve better! I think you should let the girl know, especially if she is your close friend. You both deserve someone that takes the time and effort to be with you, and doesn’t have to lie to feel like he can be your man.
Hope that helps!
i just answered a question about relapse down below! mistakes happen, but they allow us to grow and learn from the past, whether they were negative or positive. you can always make something positive out of a negative, it might just not be obvious at first.
if you feel that you can trust your bf and that he’ll comfort you, you should tell him; since he already knows, he’s bound to find out. it’s a lot worse to have him find out than telling him straight up instead of ignoring or hiding it. he well be upset, but he’ll appreciate your honesty and seeing that you need some help and comfort.
even if he does end up breaking up with you, that’s just his choice. you know how hard it is for you personally to deal with the issues to have, and it can overwhelm other people just the same. he might just need some space, as he kind of mentioned in the text, just not wanting to talk. he has the ability to take a break, whereas you don’t really get to have that. i’m very confident you two can work this out together, and staying together through the hard times will make a stronger bond for both of you. good luck!
panic attacks are horrible to go through! relapse is okay, it’s very hard to stop an addiction by yourself. making mistakes is a part of life, and it’s a good way to learn and take that experience and make it something positive. it’s okay to be not okay, it’s okay to cry, it’s okay to be sad.
you have us to talk to! sometimes when other people (like your friend) don’t understand what you’re going through, they kind of just dismiss it and let you figure it out. it sucks, i know. sometimes people don’t know how to help either, they just don’t know how to comfort someone in a situation like that.
suicidal thoughts are a symptom of mental illness, and mental illness is a illness that needs to be treated like any other illness, like the flu. if you feel like you are going to act on these feelings, go to your nearest hospital or call your national emergency line!!!!!
you could try therapy, and you can even try medication if you feel like that might work as a solution to your problems. hell is a journey, and without the bad times we wouldn’t appreciate the good times. suicide isn’t the answer, because your problems are most likely temporary, whereas death is not. you can’t reverse death, so once you’re done, you’re done. there is no coming back after that. the feeling of wanting to die will pass, because deep inside [unconsciously] you know that you don’t want to die. even when people are committing suicide, the body’s [conscious] reaction will be to fight to stay alive. emotions can be quite temporary, especially if you are suffering from depression or another type of mental illness. they are very much like a roller coaster, and it can be too much or exhausting, mentally & physically. you have made it through so much anon, look back at all that you have accomplished! there is only the now and the future, the past is in the past.